Designed to be outgrown

You don't have to get over them alone.

Find people who understand what you're going through, get personalised support, and start feeling like yourself again.

Start your recovery How GetOvr works

Free to join · Anonymous by default · 18+ only

Someone understands

Talk to someone who's been exactly here.

Friends mean well, but sometimes you need someone who knows what the third week after a four-year relationship actually feels like. GetOvr Match introduces you to people whose breakups look a lot like yours — similar length, similar timing, similar struggles — so you can support each other privately.

Matched on what matters

How long you were together, how recently it ended, and what's hardest right now — never on looks.

Mutual consent first

Messaging only opens when you've both said yes. No unsolicited messages, ever.

Private by design

Stay anonymous if you like. You choose every detail others can see.

More than just advice

Real connection, with gentle structure around it.

GetOvr Match

The heart of GetOvr. Thoughtful introductions to people who get it, private conversations, and conversation starters that take the pressure off.

  • — A plain explanation of why you might relate
  • — Accept, decline or pause whenever you like
  • — No pressure to reply, no read-receipt anxiety (you choose)

Recovery plans & tracking

A 30-day programme in four stages — Stabilise, Understand, Rebuild, Move Forward — with daily check-ins, a private journal and an optional no-contact tracker.

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A thoughtful AI companion

For 2am thoughts and the urge to text them. Supportive and practical — never a therapist, never guessing what your ex is thinking.

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Your journey, your pace

No deadlines. No streaks to lose.

Heartbreak doesn't run on a schedule. Hard days aren't failures, and nothing in GetOvr punishes you for taking a step back. Pause matching when you need quiet. Come back when you're ready.

How it works

Four simple steps.

  1. 1

    Tell us your story

    A few gentle questions, one at a time. Skip anything you'd rather not share.

  2. 2

    Find people who understand

    Receive a small number of thoughtful introductions each week.

  3. 3

    Connect and support each other

    Once you both agree, talk privately — at whatever pace feels right.

  4. 4

    Rebuild your life

    Lean on the people and tools that help, then let go when you're ready.

Plans

Start free. Stay as long as it helps.

Safety tools, blocking, reporting and crisis resources are free for everyone, always.

GetOvr Free

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Genuinely useful on its own. No card required.

  • Personal profile and guided onboarding
  • Anonymous or open profile — your choice
  • 3 new match introductions every week
  • Private messaging with people you've both accepted
  • Basic emotional check-ins and no-contact tracker
  • Moderated public support circles
  • Blocking, reporting and crisis resources, always
Start for free

GetOvr Plus

Coming soon

$9.99per month

Everything in Free, plus more personalised support. Cancel any time in two taps.

  • More new match introductions
  • Advanced matching preferences
  • The full personalised 30-day recovery programme
  • AI recovery companion, with reasonable usage limits
  • Deeper recovery insights
  • Private guided recovery circles
  • Extra journaling and reflection tools

Our philosophy

Designed to be outgrown.

Most apps want you to stay forever. We don't. Success, for us, is the day you realise you don't need GetOvr any more — and you leave feeling like yourself again.

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